why play

BYO
Safe Space.

building intimacy through ritualized gameplay

"The most dangerous kind of person... is one who is afraid of their own shadow."

— Philip K. Dick

the invitation

Are you willing to explore your shadow?

Are you willing to feel uncomfortable?

Are you willing to own your liberation?

what you're consenting to

  • Taking full ownership of your shadow
  • Unearthing your subconscious and unleashing your creative potential
  • Deepening your connection with others
  • Honoring wholeness — reclaiming parts of yourself you have previously rejected
  • Recognizing your worth beyond what others think of you
  • Approaching difficult things with levity

from people who played

"The first time I played The Judgement Game I stayed up all night afterwards in a massive trigger, wondering what the fuck just happened to me. The second time, I asked to play as a birthday present. I have collected and cherish each judgement I've received, and view each of them as a gift in my expansion."

— JMD

Trust isn't about not getting hurt. It's about agreeing not to lie when you are.

voices from the game

Four people. Four reasons to play.

Sheri Shares How She Didn't Die Playing The Judgement Game

Sheri Shares How She Didn't Die Playing The Judgement Game

Once I started, all I felt was this relief — a release of the old, my own judgements I'd been holding. My value for authenticity brought me to my next value for connection, and so they were both just lifted up and so much more alive at the end.

— Sheri
Cathy Deepens Connection With Her Daughter Through The Judgement Game

Cathy Deepens Connection With Her Daughter Through The Judgement Game

I named the judgement I had — and she said: 'Yep, I own it, Mom — totally.' It was my most favorite moment, because now it was on the table. I'd had all this fear around it, and then we both just easily owned it.

— Cathy
Rando Faces What Others Think Of Him

Rando Faces What Others Think Of Him

This game has helped me live into the value of total honesty — being willing to say the thing that might be confronting or uncomfortable, in faith that truth will lead to somewhere unknown and full of possibility.

— Rando
Nick Reveals How 'The Judgement Game' Changed His Life

Nick Reveals How 'The Judgement Game' Changed His Life

The value in playing this game — I don't see this lightly — is that it has changed my life in a way I see as any other practice like yoga or a foreign language. It's a practice to strengthen patterns that can manifest in the rest of your life.

— Nick

the payoff

Realizing our own wholeness includes reckoning with our shadow parts. One way we can discover the specificity of our shadow parts is through honest reflection in our relationships. This game will deliver you a direct portal into the disowned, rejected, and hidden parts so that you can love them fully.

"Through this love, you can then love others more fully. Let's step into wholeness, together."

understand the framework

Read the axioms.

The three foundational beliefs that make the game make sense.

The Axioms →

the next step

Learn to facilitate.

Join the October 25th forum. Ask anything. Find out if you're the one to hold this.

Learn to facilitate →
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